I don’t know why I am holding onto a friendship with Alice. I often wonder if it isn’t for the sake of her 20 month year old daughter, Molly. Also for her 5 year old son, Matthew, whom just recently completely unprompted told me, “I love you, Sarah.” That is huge for him to say that as it’s always been his belief that he couldn’t love me because he loves mommy. It’s cute how 5 year olds think like that.
I wanted to push Brian (not to be confused with Dipshidiot) out of Alice’s life because he’s a bum without a job and said some of the most crude and ridiculous things. Case in point, for some reason with Brian, Alice was telling him how she had a hard time looking Dipshidiot in the eyes and Brian came back with, “It’s probably because you’re afraid he’s going to beat you.” I hate Dipshidiot, but I just find that really tasteless to say. He one also told me that he was going to get Dipshidiot to punch me in the face. Mind you, Brian also has a domestic violence charge on his record.
When did Alice realize Brian was not good to have around herself and the kids? When she picked up Matthew from the bus stop yesterday and asked him if he’d like her to call daddy (Matthew Senior). Matt’s response was “Daddy won’t pick up the phone for you because he doesn’t love you anymore. And that’s why daddy doesn’t call us anymore.” That silenced Alice for a moment until she carefully asked, “And who told you that?” and Matt simply said, “Brian.”
How completely immature and idiotic, not to mention cruel, do you have to be to tell a 5 year old that? And how dumb does Alice have to be to instead of telling me while Matt is preoccupied with something, tell it to me in front of him AND ask him to reiterate what he said?? She didn’t even reassure him that it was false information.
She hated the fact that Matthew Sr. picked out something for Matt that she didn’t ask him to give Matt. She was asking me to find out how expensive it was and bitching about this that and the other. It’s a gift, Matt will LOVE it, I even think it’s cool. She needs to learn some appreciation. It’s Matthew Sr.’s money. He gives her enough to make her comfortable as she doesn’t work. She is able to pay her bills, feed and clothe her kids and afford nightly take-out. She got a text from Matthew Sr. last night where he told her he put in an amount of money for her in their joint account and to use it wisely. I knew she was fuming about the wisely part. He gave her more than he normally gives her, but it wasn’t enough for her. They have a 3 or 4 day Disney trip next week, she needs to put money aside for bills, bitch, bitch, bitch. I know he told her to use it wisely because he’s Generally Discharged from the Military come April, i.e. no money. I ended up pulling the card: there are people out there who don’t have any family left, are losing their homes and living on the streets. She has a roof over her head, food in her kitchen, 2 clothed well cared for kids and a great family around her supporting her. She texted Matthew Sr. back with a “Thank you” instead of the bitching she wanted to do. I told her she took the higher road doing that. Tis the motherfucking season, time to be thankful and happy.
So we had Brian brainwashing her kid’s head and now Dipshidiot wants to step in and “be the father that Matthew Sr. never was”.
AIN’T NOTHIN’ BUT A
GANGSTA WHITE TRASH PARTY!
- Dipshidiot? Is There a Dipshidiot in the House? (combatbabe.com)
- If you go chasing rabbits & you know you’re going to fall (combatbabe.com)
- Through the Looking Glass (combatbabe.com)
- You Don’t Know Me At All (combatbabe.com)