Yes, in that song for the longest time since I was little, I thought it was “Secret Asian man!”. How can you blame me? The Asians, as much as I love them — people think it’s weird that I think they are the nicest race on the planet in the human species category, can be very secretive. I really do think if they did a study on niceness involving each race, Asians would win it like a champ. I don’t know who’d come in second as I am talking purely on color of skin, not nationality. I may only be basing this on the fact that in pharmacy, at least with my favorite pharmacist whom is Vietnamese, I worked with a bunch of Asian people. I think he may have had a preference, but who cares. They cared about the pharmacy and worked hard and above all were nice, if conversations in Vietnamese didn’t bother you much. I also base it upon the fact that in New York, nobody fucking smiles. To strangers at least. In the south it is common courtesy when you make eye contact with a person in passing, you smile and a brief nod or a slight wave, or GOD FORBID you say, “Hello”.
I made it my mission on Christmas day in cold ass Queens, New York to get 3 whole strangers to smile at me. I remember coming up with the mission while on the stoop in the cold as shit weather having my morning cigarette. It did look a bit like Carrie’s street in Sex and the City, at least to me, someone who’d never been to New York before. Shortly after having such a thought an elderly Asian man had his little shopping cart and he was headed to the corner store. We made eye contact. I smiled my genuine smile and nodded in greeting and in shock and awe I received not only a smile and nod back, but a “Happy Christmas”. My smile got bigger as I returned the sentiment. One down, two more to go and still 3/4 of a cigarette.
Not very long after an Asian woman and her daughter were walking their shopping cart to the corner store. I made eye contact with the daughter and smiled and she shyly smiled back and got closer to her mom who then looked to me and smiled. Boom! I was on a roll. Lastly, right when I was putting my cigarette out, and elderly Asian woman was, like the others, on her way to the store and I looked to her and smiled, she hesitated just a second before I got a very warm smile back. My morning was made.
Just when you thought I was done. I am going to switch the whole post up on you.
I originally came up with the title with Dipshidiot in mind. But I am a woman and, unfortunately, I’m not Asian. I plan to be in my next life as I choose my destiny. I came upon some more information on Dipshidiot. Information I find pertinent to the case. The case being Alice involving herself with this creep and having 2 children along for the ride.
Dipshidiot, before having a kid with Michelle, had a child with Karli. Dipshidiot’s story is that he signed away his rights to that child when Karli got imprisoned for 10 years with armed robbery. That’s bullshit. Karli is a mess, she’s been in trouble for prostitution, drugs and child protective services. She had a child support case with Dipshidiot and not long after a paternity case with another man. So she has more than one kid. Her son with Dipshidiot is with her mother now and her mother has taken her to court for child support. Now she has a case against McDonald’s for a slip n’ fall. Her record is far from clean, but there are no armed robberies and she hasn’t been to prison as there are no extended time periods between each case. She may have been in jail a time or 2, but not prison.
In 2005 she had a DOMESTIC VIOLENCE case against none other than Dipshidiot.
I told Alice last night. I gave her the evidence last night. Her reaction was “at least he sees and pays for his sons”.
I’m confused, I thought he lost rights to one and I read the text he sent Michelle where he was being all, “do you need any money? just let me be a father to him!”
He cannot, by law, see his son that he has with Michelle. If he’s asking if she needs money, he’s obviously not paying shit. Alice is trying to compare Matthew Sr. to Dipshidiot. I don’t care if Dipshidiot is the best damn father in the universe, he still is violent towards women. Also Matthew does not only pay for Alice and his kids, he pays for her! She doesn’t work. And paying for the kids and being there to play with them doesn’t make you any good as a father if you’re beating on their mom.
She hasn’t heard any of this from him so she is going to wait until he is out and he can tell her (a shitful of fucking lies that she’ll believe). He’s lied to her all this time until he was locked up and Jail and the only person that could get his belongings was her. Then all the other women he was talking to before and during her came out.
She is going to have to be hit before she realizes anything and even then it could go 3 ways; she could get away from him, let it continue, or he will take it too far.
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Glad you met your smile goal in NYC
I thought Boston would be bad coming from the Midwest, but people are fairly cordial here.
Yikes for Alice. This does not sound good for her at all. Batterers typically don’t change. I feel so sorry for her and her babies. Maybe she’s addicted to these relationships. Not that she’s encouraging the abuse, but…maybe she thinks so low of herself that she’s convinced she deserves these types of men? Good luck to her.
I think with the writing on the wall, literally, she still believes all the garbage coming from his mouth. You are right about the low self esteem and attracting these guys, he definitely picked her as his next victim. All I know is that if I ever get that phone call, my ass will be calling the police.
It’s so sad to see someone getting sucked into an abusive relationship (or three), but there’s only so much you can do (good thing you’re willing to call the police, because she probably wouldn’t be, even if it got nasty). She’s lucky to have you!
Aww, thank you!
I’m really hoping he doesn’t get released on the 12th.